Friday, January 30, 2009

Men.

If you are a man, guy, boy, etc. OR is just confused to what the hell you are. Enjoy reading this, & to all the ladies, this is for you ;]

Men men men, constant battles with men. How can we endure them? Yesterday & the day before, I've witnessed the heartbreaks of my two most beloved sisters as their boyfriends tore their hearts apart. Struggles, cries, frustration, anger, lost of respect, and just those itty bitty lil' irritating phrases. I surely know how they feel as to how hard I try to comfort them because I'VE been through that struggle. I'VE been through that! & we all have right ladies? Surely, as you all know the famous quote, "Behind every beautiful girl, there's a screwed up guy who did her wrong, but made her strong." I simply didn't believe this until now. Guys are so selfish, but I didn't say girls aren't. All I'm saying is, part of the reason that men seem so much less loving than women is that men's behavior is measured with a feminine ruler. I mean, men lose more conquests by their own awkwardness than by any virtue in the woman. Hook-ups to break-ups to make-ups. It's a continous cycle that we all witness in our lifetime. Then, without realizing it, you try to improve yourself at the start of each new day; of course, you achieve quite a lot in the course of time. Anyone can do this, it costs nothing and is certainly very helpful. Whoever doesn't know it must learn and find by experience that a quiet conscience makes one strong. You build up this armor to protect yourself, but then as you're right on track, all of a sudden, one guy from all the stupid guys wanders into your life. He makes you so vulnerable as he opens you up and it means he can mess you up. & you give him a piece of you. He gets inside you. As he does, it eats you up and leaves you crying in the darkness, so a simple phrase like maybe "we should just be friends" or how every perceptive turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart! It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a body-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart hurt. We as woman grieve for things, but we do rejoice them as well. Of course, men aren't all the same. Neither are women.

But we all know, before success comes in any man’s life, he’s sure to meet with much temporary defeat and, perhaps some failures. When defeat overtakes a man, the easiest and the most logical thing to do is to quit. That’s exactly what the majority of men do and that's exactly what shows how men are weak. I'd say God gave men both a penis and a brain, but unfortunately not enough blood supply to run both at the same time! Hah. Men, Men, Men, they easily come, but yet they easily go, what's hard is finding someone worth keeping. We're lucky enough to have such a man.


In all, to all you so called "men", You can only push a girl away for so long until she walks out of your life on her own. So be careful and make sure this is what you want. Because once she turns around, she isn't coming back.

& to all my ladies, this is not the end. we have more to accomplish for sucess is not final, failure is not fatal, it is courage to continue that counts. Women will always be dominant. Duh ;]


LADIES FIRST <3

muah!

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